Saturday, August 22nd, 2009 | Author: ~B~

So many wonderful people have asked/insisted that I let them know where/how to donate to help get me out of this jam.  I hate feeling like an e-panhandler and said “no thank you” to more people than I can count, but it’s a tribute to just how kind-hearted my readers are that they just won’t take no for an answer.

So, if you really would like to help, please PayPal donations to mdbarnes@hotmail.co.uk, or you can snail mail them to:  P.O. Box 1242, Brea, CA  92822-1242.  If you absolutely require my full name because you need to make out a check or money order, please contact me privately at info@girlsguidetohomelessness.com.  I get really nervous about giving out all of my info online.

Also, many have asked where to send expressions of outrage to Walmart.

You can call the Walmart Ethics line at:  1-800-WM-ETHIC

You can e-mail Walmart using their online form here:  http://walmartstores.com/contactus/feedback.aspx

You can snail-mail Walmart’s corporate headquarters at:  Walmart Stores, Inc., 702 SW 8th Street, Bentonville, Arkansas 72716-8611

Again, thank you so much to all of the kind readers who are so concerned for Matt and I!  All who offer assistance to us, please let me know who you are so I can send you a hand-written thank you card from the two of us.  We wish that we could do more, and we just want to make sure that you know how grateful we are.

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And now for updates… hi all!  I’m so sorry I haven’t been around a few days to let everyone know what’s going on.  Things have just been crazy and I haven’t had the time.  The turbocharger in my car decided to give out on the freeway on the way to an interview Thursday.  Luckily, the car continued to run until I got to the interview.  Afterwards, I went to a couple of autobody shops on the same street and was advised that the car should make it “home”, but not much further than that.  The last 7 miles of the way back, the car suddenly started making a grinding noises in addition to the high-pitched screaming whine of the shot turbocharger.  By the time I arrived at my destination, blue smoke was billowing out of the exhaust pipe.  Just barely made it.

The thing that bugs me most about this is that the car is only 4 years old and has only 56K miles on it (I should also point out that I’ve only had it for 2 years and only put 20K of those miles on it – I don’t drive my car hard or far at all).  NOTHING should go wrong with a car that new and with that few miles on it, much less something major like the turbocharger.

So now, a mechanic friend has been kind enough to locate a part for me.  The part is very expensive (but still about half the cost the autobody shop wanted to charge); with labor, it will cost at least the same amount to fix my car as it will to get the trailer out (the cost of which is increasing daily).  If we can manage to get the truck/trailer out of impound, we have been offered a place on private property to park it for very little money, so that is our goal.  However, the cost is increasing by $80 daily so we need to come up with a plan quickly.  We have heard nothing from Walmart yet.

However, job prospects are looking less-than-godawful.  Despite reading in today’s L.A. Times that unemployment in California has skyrocketed to 11.9% as the national rate declines to 9.4% (a post-WWII high for the state), I seem to be getting relatively decent results interview-wise.  Before the recession/depression we’re in now, I never had trouble getting jobs.  EVER.  I landed every interview I applied for, and was offered every job that I ever interviewed for.  It took me a matter of weeks or even days to find a new job.  Life was good.  But then, after layoffs, over the progress of 8 months of searching I landed only two interview requests (one of which offered me the job).  However, the past five days I have stayed up all day and most of the evenings (usually finally conking out around 4 a.m.) applying to hundreds of positions and have actually received 5 or 6 responses so far.  Besides the interview on Thursday (in West Covina), I now have one on Monday (in San Diego) and one on Tuesday (in Irvine).  Yes, I’m applying all over SoCal.  Please cross your fingers for me!  We were doing so well; we had a “cushion” of savings and were hoping to soon find an apartment, but then came the issues with the truck/trailer/car, the cushion vanished practically overnight and we’re back to square one.

So… all positive vibes are much appreciated.  Most of all, we are grateful for the outpouring of moral support we have received.  Thanks again to all.

Cheers!

~Bri (and Matt)

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10 Responses

  1. 1
    Caitlin 

    Thanks for the update! Sorry to hear about the car being ornery :( When it rains it pours, eh? [hugs]

    My fingers are definitely crossed for the interviews and on getting your truck and trailer back!

    Also, I know you’ve got gobs on your plate, but any news on the vintage site? ;)

  2. 2
    Cassie 

    Sent a little something. Not much but every little bit counts!

  3. 3
    Carol 

    Almost in your same situation, but am maxing out my cards before I hit the street. Best of luck to you.

  4. 4
    Sissie 

    Dear Bri,
    Congratulations for being such a strong young woman and taking risks!!! You are such an encouragement for people such as myself who have a job and a home. Thank You for sending me back to humility and gratitude. Blaze your trail young lady(with your best friend beside you ) and we will lokk for more good things to come for you!!!
    God bless you

  5. 5
    Jeff Lees 

    Hi Bri –

    Thanks for your wonderful stand against hopelessness. I work with many who are continuing to grow out of their situation and know what you mean by stereotypes! I love the line homeless but not hopeless. I now give hope everywhere I go by joining the crusade of giving. We at SOC know what it means to send out to give. United we can all become better – You are appreciated and if you find it in your heart, the time or a phone to call me – it would be my pleasure to share more information on what we do and why we do it! It could save a life or two who are as motivated and mindset not to be taken down by the system.

    Your new found friend in Kansas,

    Jeff

  6. 6
    Lynn 

    I am so sorry to hear that Walmart treated you so poorly. I truly hope they make it up to you.

    ~Lynn

  7. after squatting off/on for close to 4 years at the end of teenagehood, i am glad to see someone is willing to be the voice a very large and misunderstood segment of the population.

    in the city of detroit, our enemployment rate is a staggering 25%. i see many homeless, dressed to fit into the corporate world, because when you blend you are safe from the stigma.

    good luck to you in your next life adventure!

    ps walmart has no ethics btw.

    xx miss alaineus xx

  8. 8
    Jene 

    I read an article this morning about you at CNN.com, and had to come see your blog. Your positive attatitude is refreshing. While I cannot send you funds know that prayers and good thoughts are coming from Ohio!
    God Bless!

  9. 9
    Candace 

    I feel your pain regarding job applications…whew, oh so much (more later – I’m weird, and I want to read every single one of your blog posts before I write you a detailed message telling you how much I enjoyed reading them, and then share my own story. :P )

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